One of the most powerful questions you can ask yourself every day is: What do I want from life? It’s simple, yet it holds the potential to bring focus, clarity, and purpose to your entire existence. Answering this question with certainty has the power to completely shift your mindset and set you on the path to your goals.
However, when I talk to people from all walks of life, I often hear abstract answers to this question, such as:
- “I want money.”
- “I want to be happy.”
- “I want a big house or a sports car.”
- “I just want to fall in love and settle down.”
- “I don’t really know what I want.”
Sadly, these answers lack the specificity and detail necessary to create a plan for action. Why do so many of us struggle to answer this question? The truth is that fear, hard work, and a mindset of “life just happens” prevent many from pinpointing exactly what they want.
But what if you could empower yourself to gain the clarity you need to live a life by design, instead of waiting for life to happen to you? This post outlines the five powerful ways you can take control, get clear on your desires, and begin your journey toward fulfillment.
1. Acknowledge Your Fear and Push Beyond It
The first obstacle to identifying what you truly want is fear. Fear of change, fear of failure, fear of taking action, or even fear of success. It’s easy to stay comfortable in abstract desires because to get specific requires action, and action requires courage.
To overcome this fear, you must shift your perspective and recognize that the journey toward your dreams is rewarding and fulfilling in itself. Yes, there will be challenges along the way, but these are the very experiences that will make the success worth it. Start by taking small steps toward defining your goals, and don’t let fear dictate your future. Fear will always try to stop you—but it’s often the key to the most powerful breakthroughs.
2. Commit to Hard Work and Consistent Action
Another reason many people fail to define their dreams is the hard work that comes with it. Setting clear, actionable goals is just the beginning. Achieving those goals requires sustained effort and consistency over time. If you want to get specific about what you want in life, you must be prepared to invest time, effort, and even sacrifice.
When you break down the steps to achieving your goals, they may seem daunting. But by focusing on one step at a time, you can take manageable actions every day that will ultimately lead you to your desired destination. Empower yourself by committing to the process. Consistent action, no matter how small, will compound over time and propel you toward your goals.
3. Shift Your Mindset to One of Empowerment
Mindset plays a crucial role in how we approach our lives. The majority of people operate under the assumption that life just “happens” to them—that they are powerless to shape their reality. This mindset of “bumbling” through life is a huge barrier to empowerment.
To break free from this mindset, you need to adopt a belief system rooted in personal responsibility and self-efficacy. Take control of your thoughts, actions, and responses. Stop thinking of yourself as a passive participant in your life and start living by design, not by default.
When you shift your mindset to one of empowerment, you recognize that you have the power to create the life you want. You can design your own success rather than waiting for it to come to you. This mindset change is essential for living an empowered life.
4. Get Specific About What You Want
Now that you’ve addressed fear, hard work, and mindset, it’s time to get specific about what you want from life. You can’t just say “I want money” or “I want a house.” To manifest your desires, you need to be incredibly detailed and clear about your goals.
For example:
- If you want a house, what kind of house do you want? Where would you like it to be? What size? What style?
- If you want to find a partner, what traits or values are important to you? How do they make you feel? What qualities do you envision them having?
- If you want financial freedom, how much do you need to earn, and by when? What steps can you take to start making that income today?
The more specific you are about what you want, the more your mind will begin to focus on the possibilities that will bring your dreams into reality. Once you have clear goals, you can create actionable steps to reach them.
5. Implement Coaching for Accountability and Clarity
One of the most powerful ways to empower yourself is by seeking support and guidance from a coach. Whether you’re working to improve your personal life, career, relationships, or business, a coach can provide the tools, support, and accountability needed to stay on track. With coaching, you’ll have a clear roadmap and someone to help guide you through the inevitable challenges along the way.
Our coaching programs, which cover areas such as personal development, career coaching, entrepreneurship, and executive leadership, are designed to provide you with tailored strategies and insights for your specific goals. Coaching not only keeps you accountable but also helps you uncover blind spots, develop a growth mindset, and tackle challenges with a fresh perspective.
How Mind of Means Coaching Can Help You Empower Yourself:
- Personal Development Coaching: Work with a coach who will help you unlock your true potential by addressing mindset issues, building self-confidence, and developing strategies to achieve your goals.
- Career Coaching: Define your career goals, make confident decisions, and create an actionable plan to land your dream job or take your current career to the next level.
- Entrepreneurship Coaching: Navigate the world of entrepreneurship with confidence. Learn how to scale your business, overcome obstacles, and build a sustainable brand.
- Executive Leadership Coaching: Develop your leadership skills, enhance communication, and foster innovation within your organization or team.
By incorporating coaching into your journey, you are no longer navigating life’s challenges alone. You’ll have a dedicated partner who believes in your potential and is committed to your success.
Conclusion: The Power of Empowerment
To live an empowered life, you must be clear about what you want, ready to work hard, and focused on your personal growth and mindset. Embrace fear as a sign of progress, stay committed to consistent action, and never underestimate the power of getting specific with your goals. Whether you’re in need of personal development or career transformation, coaching can provide the tools you need to succeed.
Your life is what you make it. Take control, set clear goals, and get ready to build the life you’ve always dreamed of. The journey starts with you, and the possibilities are limitless.